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How To Beat Anxiety With Eye Movement Desensitization And Reprocessing (EMDR)

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December 12, 2016
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What is EMDR?

A therapy called eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, or EMDR, is proving to help break many patterns of anxiety.

A simple way to describe EMDR might be to say a person holds a thought of an anxiety-producing moment, like an accident, while tracking the therapist’s finger as it moves back and forth. In an unscientific description in Scientific American, EMDR is compared to “…a person in an old Hollywood movie following a hypnotist’s pocket watch.”

EMDR Helps Decrease the Intensity of Anxiety Inducing Memories and Thoughts

Extensive research, however, has shown EMDR to be far from an old movie scene. More realistically, it’s a therapy that helps decrease the intensity of an anxiety-producing memory or thought and increase the power of a more positive thought.

EMDR is Being Used to Treat a Wide Range of Anxiety Issues.

Anxiety haunts people in so many different ways. It can range from constant worry about loved ones to nervousness about meeting new people to a deep angst about the tragedies of humankind or the overriding weariness the French call “ennui.”

Then there are more chronic forms of anxiety like Post Traumatic Stress Disorder that can keep people from common daily functioning.

An Example of an EMDR Session

Greg Weber, who writes a Treating Anxiety blog for the mental health website HealthyPlace, says he’s been dealing with generalized anxiety disorder for 16 years. He describes part of a session with his therapist to show how EMDR helped reduce his anxiety about being alone.

Weber: I’m afraid I’m always going to be alone. I will die alone.
Therapist: Do you have a visual image about this issue?
Me: Yes. I see myself as an old man on my deathbed, lying on a bare mattress in an empty, dirty room with bare walls and a hardwood floor.
Therapist: On a scale of one to 10, with 10 being absolutely true and one being not at all true, how true does the statement “I will always feel alone” feel to you right now?
Me: About an eight.
Therapist: Instead of, ”I will always be alone,” what would you like to believe instead?
Me: That I’m part of something larger than myself. That I’m connected and loved.
Therapist: On a scale of one to seven, with seven being absolutely true and one being not at all true, how true does the statement, “I am part of something larger than myself. I am connected and loved” feel to you right now?
Weber: About a two.

In working with EMDR and these images, Weber decreased the intensity of his anxiety about being alone and increased the intensity of his feeling about being connected and loved.

Why EMDR is Effective in Treating Anxiety

There are many theories as to why EMDR is effective. Some who have done research say it synchronizes the two hemispheres of the brain. Others say it produces relaxation or distraction from the anxiety-producing memory.

Replacing Painful Memories With a Less Charged Experience of Them

It’s theorized that the back and forth movement of the eyes helps the brain reprocess painful events in such a way that the person begins to have a new, less “charged” experience of them. Some who have experienced EMDR say it calms and soothes the body during the recollection of past traumas and that takes some of the edge off them, called desensitization.

The eye movements in EMDR are thought to be similar to the Rapid Eye Movements, or REM, in the dream stage of sleep, which is thought to help people cope with upsetting incidents.

Understanding Painful Memories Within a Larger Context

“We believe that EMDR induces a fundamental change in brain circuitry similar to what happens in REM sleep, that allows the person undergoing treatment to more effectively process and incorporate traumatic memories into general association networks in the brain,” said Robert Stickgold of Harvard Medical School. “This helps the individual integrate and understand the memories within the larger context of his or her life experience.”

How EMDR was Developed

Psychologist Francine Shapiro was walking in the park in 1987 when she realized that her eye movements appeared to decrease the negative emotions associated with her own distressing thoughts.

Shapiro said in a video interview had been diagnosed with cancer and so began intensely reflecting on and researching the mind-body connection and the influence of stress and emotions on the body.She developed a procedure to combine the eye movements with cognitive processes to decrease distress and increase positive beliefs.

Shapiro began with associates who had common issues, like disharmony with a spouse or issues at work, and through her experiments discovered that the eye movements had the same effect on other people. She expanded to working with trauma victims, especially those with PTSD from war experiences, and found the eye movement therapy could often help lessen the intensity of those traumatic memories.

Increasing Use of EMDR

Tens of thousands of therapists have been trained in EMDR and more than 20 controlled clinical trials have shown its effectiveness across ages, genders and cultures. EMDR is being used by therapists around the globe.

One Mans Story

What’s often the best testimony to any type of therapy are clients who describe how it made their lives better. One of those is Wisconsin resident Chris Elliot. Chris told NBC-TV Ch. 26 that EMDR helped him finally heal from his traumatic childhood living with an alcoholic, physically abusive father. He said he was so anxious he was afraid to fall asleep and have frightening dreams, and was even anxious about being in his bedroom because he had been locked his room as a child during an incident when his father was trying to push his mother down the steps. He had anxiety and panic attacks that affected him at work.

After seven sessions of EMDR, Elliott says no longer anxious about going into his bedroom and he’s sleeping well. Most of all, says Elliott, “I feel like I have my life back.”


Weber, Greg, “My EMDR Therapist Helped Decrease My Anxiety,” HealthyPlace, Aug. 26, 2015

Arkowitz, Hal, “EMDR: Taking a Closer Look,” Scientific American, Aug. 1, 2012

EMDR Interview with Francine Shapiro, Dutch EMDR organization, 10th EMDR Conference, Netherlands, 2009

Elliot, Chris, “EMDR Therapy Uses Eye Movements to Overcome Trauma, Anxiety, Phobias,” NBC-TV, Ch. 26, Green Bay, Wisconsin, Nov. 6, 2014

EMDR Institute, History of EMDR
EMDR Humanitarian Assistance Program, Hamden, CT, 2016

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