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How To Live Authentically

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March 16, 2015
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Elliott Kronenfeld, LICSW, Guest Blogger
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Life is Challenging

Even in the best of times, life can be challenging.  Being able to make difficult decisions, manage stressful situations and develop deep and meaningful relationships requires a certain inner core and foundation that often takes a lifetime to build.

Weathering the storm and enjoying the celebrations as you experience all that your life brings to you is a result of living with integrity.

What Does it Mean to "Live Authentically"?

What does that mean … really?  “Living with integrity” sounds like a given for most people.  After all, no one wakes up in the morning and says “Today I choose to live without integrity!”

In actuality, this is a very personal experience.  Integrity means different things to different people.  Developing your personal definition will allow you to guide yourself through some pretty sticky situations.

In general, living with integrity means living authentically, transparently and with dignity and self-respect.  Those are very lofty words!  Let’s break that down….

Live Authentically

To live authentically means to live according to your personal standards and to achieve the highest level of development that you believe is meaningful to you.  This is a far-reaching goal.  Achieving this goal requires introspection and clarity on your personal values.  Every major decision will determine if you are getting closer to that goal or you are being distracted.

Ask Yourself if You Feel Gratified by Your Work

A real-life example would be to ask yourself if you are feeling gratified by the work you do, the relationship you are in, your financial status, your sexual relationships, and other aspects of your life.

The work you do to adjust those aspects of your life means that you are realigning your life according to your values and getting closer to living with integrity.

Living Transparently

To live transparently means that you are allowing your true self to be present in relationships with others as you learn to connect and communicate more clearly and accurately.

Do you feel that others see you as you see yourself?  Do you find that people misjudge you or don’t “get” you?  Why do you think the “you” that you experience is different from what others see?  Being able to unify your version of yourself with what others perceive allows you to live more transparently.

Mental Illness Impedes on Our Ability to Live Authentically

This is not to say that people don’t struggle with real challenges that go beyond their own capacity to resolve.  Anxiety, depression and other mental health struggles can often slow down the pace of individual growth and development and individuals can be supported through working with a talented therapist.

If you are struggling with any of these issues, or simply want to grow into your next stage of life, contact a therapist at Boston Evening Therapy to discuss how to implement these practices into your everyday life.

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